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I'm Not The Church Lady

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Am I willing to give up the belief that everyone--including me is denied forgiveness?

In today's episode Don Yerly and I question what we get by remaining unforgiving, how judgment and righteousness can feel so empowering, and at the same time, not support us in having what we really want. Is it worth it to give up the practice of judging for something more real and wonderful?

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Am I willing to give up the belief that everyone--including me is denied forgiveness?